September 11 and a Prayer for Peace

September 11, 2007........most of the country and some of the world recalled and memorialized the tragedy that occurred six years ago. It seems so recent in my memory. One of my cousins was in the Pentagon that day and I recall speaking to her kids in the moments of uncertainty of her whereabouts. I am glad to say she is OK and was able to get to her family later in the evening.

Tuesday evening I participated in an Ecumenical Procession and Vigil for Peace as part of the remembrance of the 9/11 attacks. It was sponsored by the Catholic Radio Station " Radio Paz 830 AM". The procession started at my parish, Todos Los Santos Episcopal Church and then headed to La Ermita de la Caridad (A church by Biscayne Bay next to Viscaya). My priest, Rev. Alejandro Hernandez, welcomed the walkers with songs and prayers. Then, the Catholic Father Alberto Cutie (pronounced cu - tee - eh...but he is a cutie) started off the walk carrying a large wooden cross. We had police escorts all the way. There were even some nuns in the mix.

When the March for Peace reached the bay, there were many more people there waiting to participate in the vigil service. After the service, there was a concert by a diverse group of Christian acts, including Christy Aria, Robert Ekonomow and Caro Fernandez (winner of the "Voice of an Angel").

It's good to see that people can get together for a common cause. Regardless of one's background we can always pray for peace.

Other clergy that were present were retired Episcopal Bishop Onell Soto and his wife (really nice and enjoyable people!!!), The Catholic Bishop Agustin Roman (old, but did the walk), and The Presbyterian Minister Rev. Martin Anorga (A great speaker). Did I mention all this was in Spanish? It was covered by the local Telemundo and Univision Stations for the news.

More information:

Radio Paz: http://www.radiopaz.org/ and http://www.radiopazmusical.com/

Pose nude for art....

"Brugge 4, 2005" by Spencer Tunick

Get Naked In Miami, For Art's Sake!

from: "SCENE IN THE TROPICS" The Miami Herald, section 4-A, 8/21/2007
By LESLEY ABRAVANEL
lank@aol.com

Attention art lovers, exhibitionists and nudists! The Sagamore Hotel in Miami Beach just announced that they're hosting the first South Florida art installation by artist Spencer Tunick, known for his elaborately posed still and video images of multiple nude figures in public settings. On Oct. 8, 2007, the artist will use the hotel as the backdrop for multiple nude formations consisting of Miami locals and tourists. Tunick's photographs and videos taken that day will be exhibited at the Sagamore during Art Basel Miami Beach in December.

Want to shed your clothes for art's sake?

Sign up at:

http://www.spencertunick.com/

To see some of his artwork/images go to:

http://www.i-20.com/artist.php?artist_id=19

Other site:

http://www.sagamorehotel.com/

The image is "Brugge 4, 2005" by Spencer Tunick

The Borinqueneers

This month on PBS there was the premiere of "The Borinqueneers". It is a documentary film about the all Puerto Rican 65th Infantry Regiment. The only all Hispanic unit in the history of the United States Army.

The 65th Infantry Regiment was created in 1899 by the United States Congress as a segregated unit composed primarily of Puerto Ricans with mostly continental officers. They served in three wars: World War I, World War II and the Korean War.

For those of you who do not know: Puerto Rico is an island commonwealth of the United States located in the Caribbean. It shares in many of the benefits of the United States. The people are considered US citizens, but do not have the right to vote in U.S. elections. They do have voice/representation in Congress. Puerto Ricans serve in the U.S. military and can be drafted.
"Borinquen" is the nickname Puerto Ricans use for the island, coming from the original Taino Indian inhabitants of the island.

The film is well researched and has interviews with veterans and archival footage. The DVD has additional interviews and footage not presented in the PBS viewing.

This film give one a view of a proud people that served (and continue to serve) the United States, even through mistreatment and discrimination. It is especially more personal for me, since my parents and grandparents had friends that served/serve ... some never returned. One of my younger cousins just finished serving in the United States Army (he volunteered). My aunt's current husband is even president of The Veterans of Foreign Wars for Puerto Rico and attended the WWII Memorial Inauguration.

For more information:

www.borinqueneers.com

www.pbs.org

The Visible Vote 2008 - A Presidential Forum

On Thursday, August 9, 2007 at 9:00 pm, The Logo Channel (http://www.logoonline.com/)

will be presenting a Democratic Presidential Debate

with a discussion of LGBT issues on the national stage.

NOTE: There is a link on the Logo website for you to submit
questions to the candidates.

(Clinton, Edwards, Gravel, Kucinich, Obama, Richardson)

If you are in the Miami, FL area, Please join SAVE to watch the
Democratic Presidential Debate from 8:30 P.M. to 10:00 P.M.

At the following locations:
Andiamo Brick Oven Pizza: 5600 Biscayne Blvd.,Miami, FL 33137
Lucky Strike Lanes: 1691 Michigan Avenue,Miami Beach, FL 33139

The debate begins at 9:00 P.M.

REMEMBER: If you are not registered to vote and do not use your right to vote, you have no voice.

update

Been busy the past few weeks....birthday parties, kid's coming in and out, science museum, bowling, pool, beach, movies, video games, catching lizards, etc. It is all fun, but a little tiring when you revolve around other people's schedules. Have been having some "us" time with Mr. S...so I am happy.

Have about one week left with the godson. They will be heading to Orlando again on Sunday for a few days, then back here to then depart back to Wisconsin on the 11th. Whew! Where has the time gone?!

Will post something with more substance when I have some quiet time. Until then... enjoy...

Summer kids ....

Well, the kid is here and the action and drama has begun. The day of his arrival we had an impromptu birthday party of about 20 people..... of course he and I were the only boys until the dad of two of the girls arrived. We had a private revolt and escaped into a "Ghost Rider" video game. (Girls tolerated, but not allowed.) They are that that age (most of them are all 9 yrs old) where they like each other, but independence is needed. They are heavily into the "Boy versus Girl" thing.
The next day my sis and his mom took him to Orlando. They were in a suite at the Gaylord Hotel, so they were very comfortable. After visits to amusement parks, etc. they returned. We have already seen all the new movies. But, he has not seen the new "Harry Potter"...we are waiting for another friend's boy to arrive on Saturday.
Next up is the pool party on Sunday. It is a compromised theme ... Sponge Bob and Hot Wheels. I have released my OCD to the moms and aunts and I will make a potato salad and play with the kids. Too much drama when none is needed. It is simple with kids...it's the adults that make it difficult.
The week after three more boys arrive, so the odds will be in our favor for a change.

Hope all of you are enjoying the hot summer. Remember to keep hydrated so as not to encourage sunstroke....and use your sunscreen with UVA/UVB protection.

Another July Birthday....

Happy Birthday, Ditmar!!!

This week was the birthday of our friend,

favorite Austrian Bartender and event planner ......Ditmar.

I wish him much luck in the new venture of "D-Bar" (otherwise known as the backroom lounge of the Palace Food Bar at 1200 Ocean Drive, Miami Beach).

He always has smile for you and is a great host.

I'm sure there are more celebrations in the planning......

Workplace Fairness for LGBT persons

Join the Business Coalition for Workplace Fairness

Congress will debate the Employment Non Discrimination Act of 2007 this month!

Freedom, liberty and justice for all are central tenets of the United States Constitution and integral rights that your Representatives in Washington are sworn to uphold. Take this opportunity to join Fortune 500 companies and other small and medium sized businesses across the United States to add your business and your voice with the NGLCC and Human Rights Campaign as a part of the Business Coalition for Workplace Fairness.

Click here to print and sign the Coalition Form, and fax it to 866-396-3348.

As a business owner, tell your Members of Congress that now is the time to pass the Employment Non Discrimination Act of 2007 and make workplace discrimination against LGBT people history!

Join LGBT and Allied Businesses Across the Country

to Stop Workplace Discrimination
Send a letter to your representatives in Washington, DC and let them know that you support fairness in the workplace as a business owner and constituent

Did you know that it is legal in 32 states to fire someone for being gay or lesbian? Did you know that it is legal to fire someone for being transgender in 41 states? Click here to find contact information for your U.S. Representative and U.S. Senators and let them know that you support ending workplace discrimination. You will also find draft text to use in your correspondence.

Send the correspondence on your business' letterhead and fax a copy to your Representative and Senators' offices in Washington, DC. Also, please fax a copy of your letter to the NGLCC headquarters at 202.419.0443.

Congress Will be Debating ENDA Soon - Ensure Your Voice is Heard!

Add your name to the Business Coalition for Workplace Fairness and then let your Representative and Senators know that you support the equitable treatment of all workers under the law.

Columbia getting ahead of USA on LGBT rights?!!!

Colombia Gives Gay Couples Same Rights As Marriage

by 365Gay.com Newscenter Staff
Posted: June 15, 2007 - 4:30 pm ET

(Bogota, Columbia) Colombia's Congress has passed legislation giving same-sex couples most of the same rights as opposite-sex married couples.
President Alvaro Uribe has said he will sign the bill into law.
Under the legislation same-sex couples would have to register as partners. They would have to have lived together for more than two years and be of legal age.
In return they will receive the same social security and inheritance rights as married couples.
Supporters of the bill had tried four times since 1999 to pass the legislation, but each time it failed after opposition from the Roman Catholic Church.
Its success this time is attributed to a February Constitutional Court ruling that gay and lesbian couples must have the same property rights as opposite-sex couples.
The court struck down the definition of cohabitating couples as "men and women" in a 1990 law that allowed unmarried couples property rights including joint ownership of land and rights when one partner died.
The court said the law must be gender neutral.
Under the law same-sex couples who wanted to share their property had had to create a business, put the property in the company name, and list the domestic partners as joint shareholders in the company. But, even that did not always guarantee that in the case of death of one of the partners the shared possessions would go to the surviving one.
In its ruling the court carefully noted the decision did not automatically permit civil unions. That issue it said was up to the Congress. But the ruling clearing indicated for the first time that the court favored gull recognition of same-sex relationships.
"This makes Colombia a more democratic, more open place," LGBT activist Virgilio Barco told the Reuters news service.
"It marks the first time that legislation like this has passed at a national level in Latin America," Barco said.

LINK:

http://www.365gay.com/Newscon07/06/061507columbia.htm

Summertime, Summertime!

It is officially Summer, but it seems to have hit South Florida early this year. We've had the afternoon thunderstorms, humidity, heat, and some glorious days of bright sun. The plans are already under way. First up is an engagement party on June 29th. The next day I will be going with Mr. S to the Jersey Shore for the 4th of July weekend. ( We will be meeting up with Nancy and some other of Mr. S's extended family.)

Upon the return, the invasion of visitors begins. Most of the girls are like little sisters to me (except my cousins). My cousin and son (9 yrs old) will be the first to arrive. He will be here until August 10, so many activities with children will be the order of the day (this includes trips to the pool, beach, museums, a birthday party, movies, bowling, etc). Next will be a friend from Virginia and her new beau staying for a few days and then taking a cruise. A friend from Atlanta and her son (7 yrs old) will be coming twice this summer. Next up is the Massachusetts group: Husband, wife, and 3 boys (3 yrs old and twins that are 1 yr old). Last, but not least is my cousin from Maryland, her husband and two teenagers (boy and girl). Whew! I gotta make sure the BBQ is clean and the house is in order and stocked up.

This is not including the expected tropical storms and hurricanes for this season. Supplies have been purchased and the generator is ready. Though, some more food supplies might be needed. It's all part of the cost of living in South Florida. I do prefer hurricanes than other natural occurrences....at least you know it's coming and can prepare.

Also during the summer is the planning and staffing of some church youth events that I have committed to assist with. Not included are the unexpected family things that come up.

My camera got busted on the way back from the Bahama's, but the new, upgraded one will be here any day! So, (crossing my fingers) I will have some good pictures to share.

Hope all of you have a good Summer and enjoy some nature, some family and friends and take a little time to enjoy and relax.... at least take some quiet time for yourself.... Peace!

Gemini Birthday

Happy Birthday, Mr. S !!!!

Today is Mr. S's birthday. He really did not want a lot of people to know. He's been doing that "I'm feeling old" thing. I think most of us all look better than some of the twenty and thirty somethings I've seen around lately..... or maybe it's just my rose colored glasses....

He is working today. To celebrate, we will have a few cocktails at a local establishment, I will cook him a nice dinner, give him his gift and card, then and we will have a quiet night in. It's not one of the "big number" birthdays, so he really did not want a fuss, lots of people, etc.

Wishing all you Gemini a great birthday!!!

(Note: The pic is from our trip to the Bahama's....his first time snorkeling....You are never too old to try something new!!!!)

Dad, Father, Baby Daddy, Papi, etc....

First and foremost, "Happy Father's Day"!!!

Sunday is Father's Day. This day is a bit difficult for me. My dad passed away in 2000. You never really get over the death of a parent, especially if you had a good relationship. There is a void and some sadness thinking about someone you could not imagine would not be there. The happiness and joy comes from all that we shared (the nice and not so nice times) and knowing how many people cared for and loved my father....his smile, bad jokes, openness to all, sometimes the stubbornness, and charity. So....on to Father's Day.....

Okay, some of you have dads that were in your lives and others did not. Whether he was active in your life (in a good or bad way) or completely out of the picture, we all have a father. That is just a biological fact. Having a good father or dad is sometimes the luck of the draw...as they say "we can't choose our family." It is my luck that I had a good one. (NOTE: Either way, this does not excuse you from your own responsibilities or choices you make for yourself.)

My dad was, after I got older, my best friend and whom I told everything to. My mom and sister still have difficulty with this because they thought they could replace him for me in this aspect.....they don't get the father/son/guy thing. You just don't replace people that way.

So, what do we do with Father's Day? I have men in my life that have been "father like" and I have, by example, been a father to others. I have kid's in my life whose father's are not really active in their lives. What do I do? I listen, do activities with them, stand my ground on appropriate behavior, give them guidance when appropriate, babysit if asked....it's the "it takes a village" idea. (Note: when the mother is around all decisions are deferred to her, unless you are asked or ask.) It's really an honor and a compliment that I am trusted. I've even received Father's Day cards and gifts.

To those of you who have physical children of your own: You have the opportunity to be at the forefront of shaping the life of a spectacular human being. The ability to procreate does not end your responsibility as a father. To those of you with adopted children or have children in your lives that you care for: It's a hard job. To all the men: Step up and help when you can....there is a generation of kid's out there that is getting lost because of bad examples and no one that "step's up" as a good male role model or father figure.

To All: Go ahead and show appreciation to all the fathers, dads, papis, etc in your life. Many are under appreciated. When was the last time you saw an athelete say "Hey Dad!" when they are interviewed after a successful game?

I guess that's enough of my "off the top of my head" rant about Father's Day....enjoy the day and have a good week.

Old Friends and New Lives......

Tuesday I afternoon I received a telephone call. I heard a "Hey Louie!" and then "Are you up for a visit today?" It took me a minute to recognize the voice. It was one of my old friends that I grew up and got in trouble with (MDG). His family lived in the neighborhood and we all went to the same church. I said "Sure!". I had not seen him since his wife's funeral a year and a half ago.

Things sure have changed the last few years. The "gang" used to be 4 of us. MDG and AB are two years older than me and GF and I are the same age. We did and went everywhere together. Our parents knew each other and if one got in trouble, the others heard about it before we got home. This was a time without cellphones, i-Pods, e-mail or IMs....so the parent mafia was strong, we were able to get around many things. We had to use home telephones and pay telephones to communicate or actually go to the person's house.....sometimes we had to use a thing called "a letter" that you had to use actual paper and ink and mail through the post office. From Rocky Horror Picture Show and The Warriors midnight shows, the beach, boogie boarding, church retreats/conferences, trips to the "Tiki Bar" and "Monty's", hanging out in Coconut Grove and the Malls ... we were all over the city.

One year I was physically kidnapped for my birthday (with my parent's permission). They picked me up the day before my birthday, we went to Ft. Lauderdale and they refused to bring me back. The actual day of my birthday we got to the house and there was a surprise party waiting for me. I was happy and angry at the same time (I did not have a chance to shower, shave, and put on fresh clothes to make an appropriate entrance.).

We have gone through many things together...weddings, births, baptisms, birthdays, death of parents and some friends, family trouble, health issues, etc. This is at least a 35 year relationship..... We keep in touch here and there and sometimes lament the freedom of youth and how things have changed for the kids of today. Some of the kids that I Know do not understand how we can still be in contact after so many years or believe how much we did when we were younger.

MDG and I talked for about 5 hours and he stayed for dinner. My little sis came by and there was another wave of memories. While I was in college and then living in Tampa, he and the gang were my eyes, ears and her big brothers.

A lot has changed in all our lives. MDG is a widower (no kids) and now a mail carrier, AB just announced that after 17 years he is getting divorced (they have two boys age 3 and 13), and GF is doing ok but has gained about 100 pounds (he has two kids). I seem to be the keeper of information and the contact for the gang. It's a good feeling, but sometimes a little sad that we do not see each other as often as we did. It is a little difficult since we are a little spread out (locally)..... Miami, Way West Kendall, Hollywood and Boca Raton.

All of us are now taking care of aging parents and are involved in different church or community events. It's good to know that you can still keep some friendships. We are no longer the kids we were and we all have new or evolving lives. The core of the person is still there and I am glad we can still talk once in awhile.

Here's hoping that all of you have at least one friendship you cherish.

The rain is here.....

South Florida has been under water restrictions due to the lack of rain. This has caused Lake Okeechobee (source of clean water) to go down to it's lowest level. The water from the Lake is also a source of water for the Everglades. It no longer has a natural flow due to Human intrusion and control. There is currently a plan to try to restore the Everglades, but once you mess with Nature it is hard to put it back.....

Today is the first day of Hurricane season and we are expecting rain for the next few days. This is a good thing. It might ruin a couple of outdoor plans, but we do need the water.

I've been wanting to get some new flowering plants for the front yard, but that requires that they get watered regularly to take root and survive. I only use plants that are native to Florida.

Oh Well......on to the weekend. Was planning on going to the beach one of the days...let's see how it goes with the rain...... Might end up another indoor movie day....hmm... maybe some retail therapy.....

The artwork is titled "Everglades" and is by Nicholas (8 years old). I am counting the days as he will be here the beginning of July and through the beginning of August.

The Duchess of Alba, tramps, and peasants at the Palace

The Palace hosted a party for the end of the season. This is just before the official start of the 2007 Hurricane season, Summer and the bon voyage of the remaining snowbirds and visitors. Normalacy might ensue ...... at least until the next spontaneous thing....

As boys will be girls, some of the staff of the Palace were dressed to impress. The Duchess of Alba from Spain (Google her or see "the" Mrs Astor's blog) was present and all others had to pay their respects. See if you can recognize Ray Ray..... It was a fun night. Mr S. And I headed home early and missed the evening show.

China has an idea.....

This is occuring in China as reported by Tim Johnson through the McClatchy News Service and printed in The Miami Herald on May 30, 2007. (Business section C, Page 2)

Crooked Chinese drug official to be put to death
Zheng Xiaoyu, former head of China's food and drug agency, has been sentenced to death for approving substandard medications.

BEIJING -- In an unusually harsh sentence, a court Tuesday ordered the death penalty for the disgraced former head of China's food and drug agency, making a show of the nation's resolve to crack down on public health violations.

Zheng Xiaoyu was found guilty of taking bribes and dereliction of duty, according to the Beijing Municipal No. 1 Intermediate Court. He's the highest-ranking Chinese official to get the death penalty since 2000.
Zheng was convicted of taking cash and gifts worth about $832,000 to grant approvals for hundreds of substandard drugs, according to the state news agency, Xinhua. In several cases during his tenure, from 1998 to 2005, faulty medicines and fake infant formula led to the deaths of infants and adults.
A global alarm has sounded in the past two months over adulterated goods from China, including tainted pet food, which killed animals in North America, toothpaste containing industrial chemicals found in Latin America and Australia, and contaminated antibiotics in China's domestic market.
Several analysts said the harsh sentence for Zheng, 62, was aimed more at Chinese citizens angry over lax regulation and shoddy products than at consumers around the world suddenly edgy over foods and goods originating in China.
''People are increasingly outraged that profit is supplanting safety,'' said Russell Leigh Moses, an analyst of Chinese politics based in Beijing. 'This is also meant to stanch some of the rising citizen complaints about healthcare in a general sense. This is to tell that audience, `We hear you.' ''
One pharmaceutical firm, Kongliyuan Group, paid Zheng in return for the approval of 277 drugs, Chinese state media said.
In another instance, an antibiotic that the State Food and Drug Administration approved under Zheng's tenure killed 10 patients in the southern city of Guangzhou last year before it was pulled from the market.
After his removal in 2005, Chinese authorities announced that they were reviewing 170,000 pharmaceutical approvals that the agency issued under Zheng.

...the after weekend lull...

Memorial Day weekend came and went. Mr. S and I cooked, went to the movies ("28 Weeks Later"), rented some movies, and hit Twist and the Palace for a little bit. It was difficult to sleep in the evenings with the sounds of traffic, police/emergency vehicles, helicopters, and the screaming local "crazy" person or drunk tourist.

Saturday, we met up with Vickie and her friend, Meg. Meg was visiting from out of town. They had a stroll and lunch on an almost empty Lincoln Road and then met us at the Palace. The fantabulous "The" Mrs Astor was there and stated "As God is my witness the Palace will be open!". We had a good time watching the "Hoochie Mamas", the boys on the sidewalk and the over sized, multicolored cars with loud music on the street (some of the drivers must be making up for some short comings...).

Ray Ray was bartending and the music was catering to the street crowd with the loud "boom-boom" music. I guess you have to give in a little. Though there were many visitors, the crowds before dark were not as big as I thought they would be.

The police presence was everywhere. Streets were closed off, extra holding buses were on hand and the Tow Truck Nazis were hovering like buzzards on all the corners. There were many arrests (as predicted, but not as many as expected). The worst thing, I would say, was the two guys that were shot and killed in front of David's Cafe II on Lincoln Road and Meridian. They were visiting from out of town. Of course, many of the witnesses saw nothing and supposedly the shooter was assisted to escape by his friends. A suspect was caught and he confessed to the murders. This all occurred on Monday morning at 5:30 am and the arrest happenend Tuesday afternoon. These were the first murders on Miami Beach for the year.

On a good note, things are getting back to normal. Provincetown Jerry and her crew called to wish us all a good weekend. Sis had a good visit to Dallas and Mom has some plans to actually go out this week. Wednesday will the the "Turn about" night at the Palace and it is said it will be the last big party of the season (well, I guess until the next big party comes up...)

Oh...just an additional observation. I kept calling the weekend "Real Boobs" weekend. Most of the women were displaying their "girls" and other parts of the anatomy in full glory. Where else but on the beach can you wear handiwipes as a top for double D breasts with a thong for a size 18 butt and 5 inch heels and still look under dressed as the person next to you is larger and wearing less. There wasn't a lack of self confidence. Of course, the boys had bigger hair and more jewelry than the girls. (A note to the boys: A t-shirt that goes down past your knees is called a dress.)

That's it for now. Have a good week y'all!

"Urban/Hip-Hop Weekend" and the Loss of Respect

First, I must mention that I do observe the moment of silence at 3:00pm on Memorial Day for those who have given their lives in the service of our country and do know the meaning of holiday.

Memorial Day Weekend had changed greatly in the last few years. This is especially true on South Beach. I think the shift has been due to the growing lack of respect that visitors have for the people, businesses and the city during this time.

I was born and raised in this city. I recall having great times with friends and family enjoying the beaches, clubs, restaurants and the atmosphere of the "ongoing party" that is South Beach. This is no longer true for most of the natives or residents during this end of the summer weekend. It has been replaced by an inundation of vacationers that find it fun and amusing to insult the locals, be rude to employees of local establishments, play the loudest music possible at all hours and litter the streets/beaches with trash (including bottles, cans, paper, condoms, etc). There have been weapons drawn and street fights. This is not acceptable behavior!

Some businesses have opted to close (as vacation time) or limit their services due to the drop in revenue that occurs Memorial Day Weekend. How can the city greet 300,000 people and lose money?

The City uses it's police resources (along with that of some of the other local authorities) to enforce local laws and ordinances during this weekend. The ACLU is present to observe because of the large amounts of arrests that typically occur (especially of people of color). There were1,010 arrests in 2006 with 145 of them being felonies and 865 being misdemeanors. The typical amount of arrests (on a normal weekend) is 150 total.

I do not consider the arrests racial profiling. Most are for DUI, open containers and loud music (considered "quality of life" violations). I guess young people have not been taught how to visit and be festive without being abusive. I know when South Beach is shown on television and movies it is portrayed with glamour, inclusiveness, and controlled indecency. Some of these visitors have not learned how to do this.

I have not hit on the "urban" or "hip-hop". Yes, there is a greater number of visitors of color this weekend. There is live music at Bicentennial Park and parties around the town featuring Hip-Hop/Rap music. The trend, when it began, was Reggae and Caribbean music. Maybe it is just the younger age of the participants, but respect is not limited by race, culture, beliefs, lifestyle or age. Friends (of color) that used to visit this weekend and now opt to go somewhere else have told me the weekend is for "kids" and there is no room for "mature" people. The streets are blocked, the traffic and parking becomes a problem, and then they are treated badly by other party goers. It's not worth the hassle for them.

Well, as for me, I plan to spend time with Mr. S this weekend. Ms. Vickie and a friend of hers from New Jersey might be down on Sunday and we will meet up at the Palace. My sis is escaping the city and going to Texas. We decent people will keep our heads and cocktails high and welcome all visitors.

I will end with a quote from "The" Mrs Astor about the treatment of locals by visitors on Memorial Day Weekend: "...the mob is the mob and have no respect for decent people acting indecently. Alas."

EVERYONE HAVE A FUN AND SAFE WEEKEND!!!!

Saturday and the Lion King...

Finally got to see the stage production of "The Lion King" at the Broward Center in Ft. Lauderdale last Saturday. For me, it was a little slow in parts and the sound system was a little off, but it was very enjoyable. Part of the fun was watching the kids. I saw excitement and awe in their faces. Some could not stay in their seats, but it was because they needed to sit up higher to see the full stage.

There were seven kids with us. I had fun showing them the theater and running around the lobbies. I am trusted by all the parents. I set boundries and the kids listen to me...plus I do enjoy them.

The day was a little off for me. I was with Mr. S in the morning and then left to go see the show. (Note: My friend bought the tickets before Mr. S and I started seeing each other, or else I would have had one for him.) The plan was to see the show and then come back and meet up with Mr. S for some drinks and then he was making dinner. That happened in a round about way.

It is difficult when you make plans, but are relying on the group to follow through. I went up to the show with 3 friends (total 4 in the car) to meet up the rest of the group (21 in total). Me and the other passengers all had plans for after the show,but the driver informed us after the show that we were going to her friend's house WAY west. This is when I began not to smile and get a little hot under the collar. Me and the other two passengers had to make phone calls to delay or cancel plans. We were ready to take a cab or public transportation back, but the driver insisted that we would be back early. (I should have grabbed the cab.)

I recommended "Jaxon's Ice Cream Parlor" for the parents and kids. The rest of us (without kids) had dinner at "Max's Cafe" in Riverwalk (I only had a salad because I kept saying "Mr. S. is waiting and cooking me dinner). After bad/slow service, my complaining, some good conversation (the company was good), rain and traffic, I finally made it to see Mr. S two hours later than anticipated. I was flustered when we met up and he was a little upset, but we both got in a better mood once we were together. We had a great dinner and then spent Sunday having a "Loaf Day".

Needless to say, the next time I go see a show with "the group" I will pin down the plans better or plan on getting there and back on my own.

Sunday and the Rain

Sunday was "Loaf Day" with Mr. S. We could not have planned it any better. In the morning there was torrential rain and wind ... this made for a good beginning to the day for us. Rain storms are always romantic. I actually went out in the storm to buy eggs and bread for Mr. S to make breakfast.....my shoes and clothes were soaked. I washed all his dishes and then we spent the rest of the day on the couch watching TV and movies. Along the way we ate Salmon Patties, Crab Cakes, Chocolate Mousse Cake, Popcorn, Cheez Nips, etc.

I loved the day. I also got to see the stress from the previous week disappear off Mr. S's face. Plus, my anxiety of planning for the following week went away (at least for the day).