Wednesday, February 07, 2007

...Time to follow my own advice...

I tell people to be careful about what they say in anger because once it's out there you can not take it back. Never vent in a public forum. That happened to me. It was also part of my dealing with being deeply hurt. (I have never been able to handle being ignored either.) I guess I was looking for some kind of reaction (which I did get...some good and some not so good). ...Sometimes an apology or retraction is too late or not enough. I still have unanswered questions, but guess will live with never getting the answers. I will also have to live with the consequences and still be able to coexist without having any contact with some people. Going to be difficult to have anything to smile about for awhile.
There are many reasons silence is golden.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Listen little brother, you are a good person and I know it is hard for you to let things go. Love is good to find, but if it's not meant to be, mounrn it then move on. Some people have the ability to forgive, some don't. If they want to ignore you it is all about them and you were never important.
Will take you out to dinner and give you that slap back to reality... LOL
S.