
Thursday, August 27, 2009
...Winter Party Festival 2010 ... the meetings begin...

Thursday, August 20, 2009
The Coconut Grove Bed Race is Back!!!!!
(Note: I have participated in this event 3 times and it has always been a great day ..... especially after a night of bar hopping and dancing in pajamas ... I'll have to find some of those pictures)The race involves rolling beds down two village streets in Coconut Grove with local community, individuals, businesses, organizations, and clubs sponsoring the beds. Teams consist of 5 members, four (4) race and one (1) rides, racing against the clock until the fastest eight (8) beds are determined and go head-to-head racing for the top position. Prizes are awarded for theme, décor, and racing success.
When: Sunday September 6, 2009 All Day
10 – 11 AM Family Pajama Party: story time, puppets and sing-a-longs @ Main stage (Commodore)
11 - 1 PM Pole Position Pre Party: Main stage Music & Sponsor Activities
1 PM – 5 PM RACE SCHEDULE:1–2 Pits open: public viewing & prize judging Waiter Obstacle Course Races (Commodore Plaza)2–4 Time Trials (Grand Ave.)4–5 Drag Race - Quarters, Semis, and Finals (Grand Ave.)4- 5 Theme winners Obstacle course races (tentative; on
Commodore)
5 – 7 PM Post Race Celebration: merchant drink and dinner specials and music mini-concerts (minimum 4 different music “stages” & four restaurant parties hosted by sponsors)
Where: Coconut Grove (Miami), FL on the village streets (Commodore & Grand Ave.) by breathtaking Biscayne Bay
What to Expect:
- Hundreds of people will participate in a tongue-in-cheek race of homemade beds on wheels
- Thousands of spectators will converge on the streets of the Grove.
- Support to the University of Miami and the Alonzo Mourning Charities in dollars, awareness and imbedded activities
Who will be Attending:
- 15 thousand spectators
- Multi-ethnic, male and female
- Shoppers, diners and pub goers
- Tourists and travelers
- Public officials & community leaders
- Families & children
- Representatives of the Alonzo Mourning Foundation
Highlights of the Event:
- A family Pajama Party and story time featuring The Princess and the Pea read by the
Alonzo Mourning Charities Honey Shine Girls & sponsored by The Bookstore in the Grove
- Waiters obstacle course race
- Pit Row parade and display of the decorated and themed beds
- Music, media, interactive activities and merchant specials
- A pre-event Pajama Crawl, Saturday night, September 5th
Event Goal:
- To encourage visitors and patrons to enjoy the tree lined streets of Coconut Grove, to brand Coconut Grove as a busy, engaging, exciting and viable village and to create a culture where interaction, innovation, fun and humor help shift the community of Coconut Grove into a collaboration of community leaders and fundraisers.
The Great Grove Bed Race has awakened from a six year snooze…wake up and get creative! To be involved in the Revival of a Grove Tradition you can assemble your team to build a bed, compete by theme and race for best time or come join a pit crew …no bed theme or idea? We have the creative team to assist you and the pit crews to join you!
Admission: The event is free to spectators
More info: http://www.thegreatgrovebedrace.com/
Saturday, August 15, 2009
Out with the girls at Crazy Pianos

Wednesday, August 05, 2009
Begins: Friday, August 7
Taste Bakery
1686 Jefferson Avenue, Miami Beach
From August 7 through September 6, Taste Bakery will celebrate the opening of its new Lincoln Road location by offering a $10 summer lunch special that includes a scrumptious sandwich, a delicious dessert and a refreshing soda.
For every special sold, Taste will donate $3 to the Task Force!
Think of it as a way to support LGBT rights and enjoy a “tasty” meal at the same time.
Join us as we kick off this special month-long fundraising drive on Friday, August 7. The menu that day will include the chance to win spectacular raffle prizes, including a $50 gift certificate and tickets to the 2010 Winter Party Festival.
Please print out this coupon and bring it to Taste Bakery’s NEW Lincoln Road location, 1686 Jefferson Avenue on Miami Beach .
Sunday, August 02, 2009
Monday, July 27, 2009

7.31.09/Friday night Fashionista Fest @The TIDES Hotel from 8-11PM w/DJ Miik
Friday, July 24, 2009
Mid-July update
Last weekend was a whirlwind of "get togethers" and some "debauchery" ... I can say I did get a certain Twist bartender to pose for some "risque" photos and egged on someone to go ahead and get their nipple pierced (NO, not Mr. S)..... I photographic evidence, but will only share them with the exclusive few ....
Had the kid over on Wednesday and got his haircut on Thursday. Mom, my younger sis and him are headed to Puerto Rico for two weeks and will meet up with a bunch of family. My godmother/aunt will be 88 on August 3 (I am sending the gift with them).
Have begun with the planning for the Happening #25 (Youth retreat for High School youth). In the middle of planning the Miami Recognition Dinner and starting to plan Winter Party 2010.
While mom is gone I am planning to do some needed home improvements that are easier to do when I can make a mess and then clean up .... maybe paint the living room, dining room and guest room....
Upcoming soon is the fundraiser for the Task Force and Equality Florida planned by Thomas Barker. All the funds raised go directly to the organizations.
Heard good news today. Alan and Darren from up North will be down the end of August through Labor Day weekend. It is always a joy to see them....
Well, hope y'all are doing ok. Until later ... take care of each other.....
Wednesday, July 15, 2009
Bishops Vote for Generous Pastoral Response on Blessing Same-Sex Unions

Wednesday, July 15, 2009
Bishops Vote for Generous Pastoral Response on Blessing Same-Sex Unions
There was no room at the inn this afternoon for press in the House of Bishops. The reporter from the LA Times was the last one in and had to run around pleading for a chair until an extra one was brought up. Only the question of blessing same gender relationships could bring such excitement after the passage of D025.
Bishop Ely opened the session by explaining that 26 bishops met together early and late for an extended indaba-style conversation in two two-hour sessions. As a result of that conversation five bishops wrote a substitute resolution. Bishop Jones presented the resolution and the bishops then took another twenty minutes for conversation.
The substitute resolution was wordsmithed for a while. The biggest change was taking out the idea of having liturgies developed in the next three years to be considered at the next General Convention.
So what are we left with –
1) local option – in other words each bishop can decide what is appropriate especially given the different legal situations. This has been the situation informally and unofficially but now it’s out in the open.
2) The collection and development of theological and liturgical resources.
This seems to reflect a sentiment mentioned several times by bishops over the past week, that we need to develop our theological ideas BEFORE we develop liturgies, not the other way round. It also provides some breathing space for the more conservative.
We’ll see what the Deputies do. Our rendering of the final text is here;
Resolved, the House of Deputies concurring, that the 76th General Convention acknowledge the changing circumstances in the United States and in other nations, as legislation authorizing or forbidding marriage, civil unions or domestic partnerships for gay and lesbian persons is passed in various civil jurisdictions that call forth a renewed pastoral response from this Church and for an open process for the consideration of theological and liturgical resources for the blessing of same gender relationships;
and be it furtherResolved, That the Standing Commission on Liturgy and Music, in consultation with the House of Bishops, collect and develop liturgical and theological resources and report to the 77th General Convention;
and be it furtherResolved, That the Standing Commission on Liturgy and Music, in consultation with the House of Bishops, devise an open process for the conduct of its work inviting participation from provinces, dioceses, congregations, and individuals who are engaged in such theological work, and inviting theological reflection from throughout the Anglican Communion;
and be it further
Resolved that bishops, particularly those in dioceses within civil jurisdictions where same gender marriage civil unions or domestic partnerships are legal, may provide generous pastoral response to meet the needs of members of this church, and be it further
Resolved that this convention honor the theological diversity of this Church in regard to matters of human sexuality and be it furtherResolved that the members of this church be encouraged to engage in this effort.
The official one will be herehttp://gc2009.org/ViewLegislation/view_leg_detail.aspx?id=898&type=CurrentSoon.
Vote Passes the House of Bishops. The vote was taken by roll call.
104 yes
30 no
2 abstain
Episcopal Church ordination of Priests and Bishops .... The Vote is in
By Jerald Hyche, July 15, 2009
[Episcopal News Service -- Anaheim, California]
One day after adopting Resolution D025 by a 2-1 margin, Episcopal Church bishops on July 14 offered various interpretations when asked about the measure's purpose, its impact and why they voted for or against it.
All those interviewed agreed that the declaration makes a dramatic statement about the Episcopal Church's stance on the ordination of gay and lesbian persons -- including their consecration as bishops -- that cannot be ignored.
"We've made ourselves pretty clear," said Keith Whitmore, assistant bishop of Atlanta, who voted for the resolution. "The consequences of doing that are rather obvious."
The Rev. Ian Douglas (Massachusetts), World Mission legislative committee member, had told a news briefing after the House of Bishops' action on July 13 that the committee had been assigned all 13 resolutions that addressed Resolution 2006-B033. The resolution, adopted by the 75th General Convention, called for restraint in consenting to the consecration of bishops whose "manner of life" -- widely understood to mean homosexuality -- would cause concern for other members of the Anglican Communion.
Six of the resolutions called for "direct repeal of B033," Douglas explained, and six called for "a re-statement or maybe even a strengthening of our non-discrimination canons with respect to ordination." However, Douglas said, "in the House of Deputies -- particularly in the House of Deputies legislative committee on world mission -- there was not a whole lot of energy for either of the first two choices."
Instead, D025, the 13th resolution, "in the mind of the committee was a description of where we are as a church right now … and this invitation for ongoing conversation in these difficult issues was very important."
Bishops offered different opinions about the status of B033 in light of this week's action.
"I see D025 as trying to be fair to the gay and lesbians in our congregations, especially for those dioceses not as conservative as my own," said Bishop Philip Duncan of the Central Gulf Coast, who voted no. "But I don't see it as doing away with B033 because we do want to stay within the framework of the Anglican Communion."
Bishop James Jelinek of Minnesota, however, said he supported D025 because the new resolution deftly moves the church beyond B033.
"B033 was the absolutely right thing to do at the time," he said. "Would we want to do it now? No. But do we want to speak to that? No, because that's the past. We're looking to go forward."
When asked if D025 repudiates B033, Bishop John Buchanan, provisional bishop of Quincy, said "absolutely not. B033 was aimed at meeting a Windsor request for a moratorium on ordination of certain folks. That moratorium has held for three years and it will only not hold if and when we ordain the next openly gay person as a bishop in our church."
Bishop John Bryson Chane of Washington, an outspoken opponent of B033, said he voted for the resolution as a way of stating what he described as inevitable: "What this resolution says is, we've lived with the idea of using restraint in the consecration of gay and lesbian people for three years, and that time is up.
"Now what we have is a full awareness across the church and the communion that, by our constitution and canons, a person who is in a same-sex, committed relationship can, through the normal channels of our ordination process, be considered for ordination and consecration."
Bishop Bruce Caldwell of Wyoming and other D025 supporters agreed that the measure presents an honest description of the Episcopal Church's fully inclusive ordination process in a way that will benefit the church's relationship with other members of the Anglican Communion.
"The resolution is largely descriptive of where we are today," Caldwell said. "I do think we moved ahead in transparency. Our language became more clear than it was in the past, and that's a very healthy thing for the communion.
"It was not a direct attack on B033, so we can't absolutely draw that connection. We can say this has moved us further to inclusion, though, and in my heart, I am grateful for the clarity that is in it."
According to Bishop Mark Lawrence of South Carolina, clarity is exactly what is lacking in the resolution's language and its meaning for the future of the Episcopal Church.
"We're staring into murky waters," Lawrence said, "and everyone reads the tea leaves the way they want. It's very much of an Anglican Communion-breaking issue, and it breaks faith with many of the faithful in the church."
Though they both voted against the resolution, Duncan and Texas Bishop Andrew Doyle agreed that the document clearly and diplomatically states the church's position on ordination being open to all.
"It was very clear in acknowledging the reality that it is happening and that's a very different thing," Doyle said. "I don't think it's a shift in our thinking because people are thinking the same thing they were thinking three, six years ago on that from their various opinions…I think the resolution is a healthy and honest description of where we are."
Doyle said he voted against the resolution out of concern for repercussions if the action was seen as a repeal of B033.
Duncan agreed: "There will be some people who choose to leave the church and some who will have a very, very hard time with it. But I don't see it, as I read it, as strident and difficult as some people suggest it might be, because there's a graciousness about it."
Jelinek, Burnett and Caldwell predicted that other members of the Anglican Communion will more easily receive the truth of the convention's action thanks to relationships created at Lambeth Conference in 2008.
"D025 is about naming who we are -- not saying something against the Anglican Communion, and that's very different from what's happened in the past," Jelinek said. "This wasn't about taking a stand in Anglicanism; this was about describing who we are as a body. Does that also say something deeper? Yes, but it doesn't rub somebody's face in it."
Assisting Bishop Steven Charleston of California said he supported D025 because it provides the basic element necessary to true relationship: "trust, clarity and honesty."
"Without that we open ourselves up to an endless cycle of suspicion, innuendo, confusion, argumentation," he said. "By being clear about where we are, we're inviting others to enter into relationship with us based on that kind of clarity and for those of us within the Episcopal Church to begin to learn to live collegially with each other within our own tradition."
In international reaction, the conservative Anglican Communion Institute (ACI) interpreted the resolution as a repudiation of B033.
In a July 13 statement, ACI said the Episcopal Church "is already out of communion with the majority of the world's Anglicans. It is our expectation that many dioceses will not follow the Episcopal Church out of the Anglican Communion and the mainstream of apostolic Christianity. Instead, they will take immediate action to assure the communion and the Archbishop of Canterbury of their continued commitment both to observe the communion's moratoria and to preserve and restore their structural bonds to the communion."
The U.K.-based Fulcrum, a group for evangelical Anglicans, said in a statement that D025 "represents a further determined walking apart by the American Church and must have significant consequences for the relationship of TEC to the Church of England and the Anglican Communion."
Integrity USA, which supports the full inclusion of LGBT people in the church, described the bishops' decision as "effectively end[ing] the 'B033 era' and return[ing] the church to relying on its canons and discernment processes for the election of bishops."
The Rev. Susan Russell, outgoing Integrity president, said, "there is no question that today's vote in the House of Bishops was an historic move forward and a great day for all who support the full inclusion of all the baptized in the Body of Christ."
The bishops, Russell said, spoke candidly and truthfully "to each other and to us and … to our Anglican Communion brothers and sisters and to the world."
"The truth is we are a church committed to mission -- we are a church committed to the full inclusion of all the baptized in that mission -- and we are a church committed to creating as broad a place to stand as possible for ALL who wish to be part of this great adventure of being disciples of Jesus."
Tuesday, July 14, 2009
Mid July update
Saturday, July 11, 2009
Nick's 11th Birthday Pary
Friday, July 10, 2009
Searching for a poster....
Thursday, June 11, 2009
June ..... already?
... Twist yearly "renovations" going on
... planning Disney trip with Mr. S for his birthday (6/19)
... Mr Astor has a birthday coming up ....
... planning the 4th of July weekend up to Mantoloking, NJ with Mr. S and looking forward to it .... Who will get to cook? hmm? (Yes, he will make the bread pudding...)
... Planning Nicholas's 11th birthday sailing party in Coconut Grove...
... Gettting mom to go to Puerto Rico or Virginia with her best friend
Keeping out of the rain, but loving the thunder storms when watching TV & Movies with Mr S.
Keep hydrated and enjoy the start of Summer!!!!
Sunday, May 31, 2009
A night at the theater - "Chicago"
Tonight Mr S and I will be going to the closing night of Broadway Musical Chicago at the Adrienne Arsht Center. Sofia Vergara will play Mama Morton.I got bought the tickets really early, so we have box seats for the performance. I really like when we have "date nights". We will have dinner, dress up, head to the theater, enjoy some champagne and sit for the show.
Mr S was horrified that I had never seen this show live, but I counter attack with that he has never seen The Sound of Music. Well ... at least we still have things to learn from and teach each other....
This is a lovely theater and the pics are of the Ziff Ballet Opera House where the performance will take place. I took them during the grand opening week. The odd shape of the buildings and the over run in building costs was partly due to the fact that the sound and acoustics of the performing arts center was designed first and then the buildings were constructed around that.
Thursday, May 28, 2009
Pridelines Fundraiser
Pridelines is an organization that assists Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Transgender and Questioning youth. Their work saves lives. They will be having a fundraiser this Friday at the Florida Room in the Delano Hotel and the suggested donation is only $10.00 (but you can give more!).Their organizers worked with me in reaching a wide range of people for the Winter Party Family Picnic and we are already planning for 2010. Please support and help if you can. Thanks!!!
Tuesday, May 26, 2009
Friday, May 22, 2009
Memorial Day Weekend 2009




