Thursday, August 27, 2009

...Winter Party Festival 2010 ... the meetings begin...



Wednesday night was the first meeting of the 2010 Winter Party Festival Committee. There have been organizational meetings already, but this was the first full Committee meeting.
Announcement: I am the chair for the "Departure Lounge" event. It is the official opening night event for the Winter Party Festival. There will be VIPs, Community Leaders and Community Organizations attending.

There are still some positions open: Volunteer Organizer, Executive Secretary, etc.

The meeting was well attended and I am excited that there are a whole group of new and diverse people wanting to "step up" and take charge to make things happen. Currently, there are less events planned because of the current economy. Decisions had to be made to decrease expenditures and increase income so that more organizations can receive their needed grants.
On you mark! .......

Thursday, August 20, 2009

The Coconut Grove Bed Race is Back!!!!!

(Note: I have participated in this event 3 times and it has always been a great day ..... especially after a night of bar hopping and dancing in pajamas ... I'll have to find some of those pictures)

What: This will be the revival of a Grove tradition after a six year snooze, the return of the Coconut Grove Bed Race, a free community event and fundraiser that proves that a community can come together, have fun and raise funds for the University of Miami and this years’ community based charity; the Alonzo Mourning Charities.


The race involves rolling beds down two village streets in Coconut Grove with local community, individuals, businesses, organizations, and clubs sponsoring the beds. Teams consist of 5 members, four (4) race and one (1) rides, racing against the clock until the fastest eight (8) beds are determined and go head-to-head racing for the top position. Prizes are awarded for theme, décor, and racing success.

When: Sunday September 6, 2009 All Day

All Morning Bed Race Breakfast and Brunch specials throughout Grove
10 – 11 AM Family Pajama Party: story time, puppets and sing-a-longs @ Main stage (Commodore)
11 - 1 PM Pole Position Pre Party: Main stage Music & Sponsor Activities
1 PM – 5 PM RACE SCHEDULE:1–2 Pits open: public viewing & prize judging Waiter Obstacle Course Races (Commodore Plaza)2–4 Time Trials (Grand Ave.)4–5 Drag Race - Quarters, Semis, and Finals (Grand Ave.)4- 5 Theme winners Obstacle course races (tentative; on
Commodore)
5 – 7 PM Post Race Celebration: merchant drink and dinner specials and music mini-concerts (minimum 4 different music “stages” & four restaurant parties hosted by sponsors)

Where: Coconut Grove (Miami), FL on the village streets (Commodore & Grand Ave.) by breathtaking Biscayne Bay

What to Expect:
- Hundreds of people will participate in a tongue-in-cheek race of homemade beds on wheels
- Thousands of spectators will converge on the streets of the Grove.
- Support to the University of Miami and the Alonzo Mourning Charities in dollars, awareness and imbedded activities

Who will be Attending:
- 15 thousand spectators
- Multi-ethnic, male and female
- Shoppers, diners and pub goers
- Tourists and travelers
- Public officials & community leaders
- Families & children
- Representatives of the Alonzo Mourning Foundation


Highlights of the Event:
- A family Pajama Party and story time featuring The Princess and the Pea read by the
Alonzo Mourning Charities Honey Shine Girls & sponsored by The Bookstore in the Grove
- Waiters obstacle course race
- Pit Row parade and display of the decorated and themed beds
- Music, media, interactive activities and merchant specials
- A pre-event Pajama Crawl, Saturday night, September 5th

Event Goal:
- To encourage visitors and patrons to enjoy the tree lined streets of Coconut Grove, to brand Coconut Grove as a busy, engaging, exciting and viable village and to create a culture where interaction, innovation, fun and humor help shift the community of Coconut Grove into a collaboration of community leaders and fundraisers.


The Great Grove Bed Race has awakened from a six year snooze…wake up and get creative! To be involved in the Revival of a Grove Tradition you can assemble your team to build a bed, compete by theme and race for best time or come join a pit crew …no bed theme or idea? We have the creative team to assist you and the pit crews to join you!

Admission: The event is free to spectators


More info: http://www.thegreatgrovebedrace.com/




Saturday, August 15, 2009

Out with the girls at Crazy Pianos









Mr. S has a lot of work to do this weekend. So, I am spending a little time to be with my "girls" this weekend. I also have a meeting on Saturday.

Friday night, my sis and some high school friends and old friends went to "Crazy Pianos" at Cocowalk in Coconut Grove (in the location were Tu Tu Tango used to be). The food and service was great.

The entertainment consist of a revolving group of musicians that sing and play different instruments. There are two pianos on the stage with two guys playing together. It is an all request program, so the more you request, the more they can play for the crowd. The musicians also play sax, drums, guitar ... and all of them sing.

The place has murals of singers, athletes, comedians, local politicians painted on the walls. We could not tell who some of them were. It was almost like they had painted it on Silly Putty and copied them on the wall ... bad face lifts?

Well ... we sang, danced and were silly for awhile and enjoyed the crowd ... from old rock and roll, 70's disco, new alternative and R&B the music was as diverse as the patrons.

I am planning on getting Mr. S to go with some friends another night or maybe their Sunday brunch ... it will be a hoot!

'til later, enjoy the weekend!

Wednesday, August 05, 2009

Join the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force for the launch of the

Taste Bakery’s
$10 SUMMER Lunch Special

Begins: Friday, August 7
Taste Bakery
1686 Jefferson Avenue, Miami Beach

From August 7 through September 6, Taste Bakery will celebrate the opening of its new Lincoln Road location by offering a $10 summer lunch special that includes a scrumptious sandwich, a delicious dessert and a refreshing soda.

For every special sold, Taste will donate $3 to the Task Force!

Think of it as a way to support LGBT rights and enjoy a “tasty” meal at the same time.

Join us as we kick off this special month-long fundraising drive on Friday, August 7. The menu that day will include the chance to win spectacular raffle prizes, including a $50 gift certificate and tickets to the 2010 Winter Party Festival.

Please print out this coupon and bring it to Taste Bakery’s NEW Lincoln Road location, 1686 Jefferson Avenue on Miami Beach .

Monday, July 27, 2009


For those of you planning to attend the kick-off Summerfest “Fashionista” event on Friday evening, please be advise that the NEW venue is the TIDES HOTEL instead of Table 8.

As a reminder to all, here is a breakdown of the entire Summerfest party schedule:

7.31.09/Friday night Fashionista Fest @The TIDES Hotel from 8-11PM w/DJ Miik

8.01.09/Saturday Sunburst Brunch@Palace from 11am-3pm w/Queen Cabaret

8.01.09/Saturday night Summer Storm @Score from 10pm- 5am w/DJ Drew Tribe

8.02.09/Sunday Summerfest Pool Party @Hotel Victor from 1-6pm w/DJ Char Mix

8.02.09/Bar Crawl @ Palace, Halo, Score and Twist w/opening and closing performances by Queen Cabaret 8pm-2am

100% of the funds collected for the Summerfest events benefit the Gay and Lesbian Task Force and those from the Bar Crawl will benefit Equality Florida.


For tickets or more info go to:
www.summerfestmiami.com or call 305.509.2700

Friday, July 24, 2009

Mid-July update

My head is still full of thoughts after watching the 5 part Torchwood:Children of Earth series. Is it the end of Torchwood? As long as the writer has ideas and is given the opportunity to share them (up to BBC to renew for season 4)..... But there is still Doctor Who and they both exist in the same Universe and writer's mind, so they will intersect.

Last weekend was a whirlwind of "get togethers" and some "debauchery" ... I can say I did get a certain Twist bartender to pose for some "risque" photos and egged on someone to go ahead and get their nipple pierced (NO, not Mr. S)..... I photographic evidence, but will only share them with the exclusive few ....

Had the kid over on Wednesday and got his haircut on Thursday. Mom, my younger sis and him are headed to Puerto Rico for two weeks and will meet up with a bunch of family. My godmother/aunt will be 88 on August 3 (I am sending the gift with them).

Have begun with the planning for the Happening #25 (Youth retreat for High School youth). In the middle of planning the Miami Recognition Dinner and starting to plan Winter Party 2010.

While mom is gone I am planning to do some needed home improvements that are easier to do when I can make a mess and then clean up .... maybe paint the living room, dining room and guest room....

Upcoming soon is the fundraiser for the Task Force and Equality Florida planned by Thomas Barker. All the funds raised go directly to the organizations.

Heard good news today. Alan and Darren from up North will be down the end of August through Labor Day weekend. It is always a joy to see them....

Well, hope y'all are doing ok. Until later ... take care of each other.....

Wednesday, July 15, 2009

Bishops Vote for Generous Pastoral Response on Blessing Same-Sex Unions


Posted by Integrity USA's blog:

Wednesday, July 15, 2009

Bishops Vote for Generous Pastoral Response on Blessing Same-Sex Unions

There was no room at the inn this afternoon for press in the House of Bishops. The reporter from the LA Times was the last one in and had to run around pleading for a chair until an extra one was brought up. Only the question of blessing same gender relationships could bring such excitement after the passage of D025.

Bishop Ely opened the session by explaining that 26 bishops met together early and late for an extended indaba-style conversation in two two-hour sessions. As a result of that conversation five bishops wrote a substitute resolution. Bishop Jones presented the resolution and the bishops then took another twenty minutes for conversation.

The substitute resolution was wordsmithed for a while. The biggest change was taking out the idea of having liturgies developed in the next three years to be considered at the next General Convention.

So what are we left with –
1) local option – in other words each bishop can decide what is appropriate especially given the different legal situations. This has been the situation informally and unofficially but now it’s out in the open.
2) The collection and development of theological and liturgical resources.

This seems to reflect a sentiment mentioned several times by bishops over the past week, that we need to develop our theological ideas BEFORE we develop liturgies, not the other way round. It also provides some breathing space for the more conservative.

We’ll see what the Deputies do. Our rendering of the final text is here;
Resolved, the House of Deputies concurring, that the 76th General Convention acknowledge the changing circumstances in the United States and in other nations, as legislation authorizing or forbidding marriage, civil unions or domestic partnerships for gay and lesbian persons is passed in various civil jurisdictions that call forth a renewed pastoral response from this Church and for an open process for the consideration of theological and liturgical resources for the blessing of same gender relationships;
and be it furtherResolved, That the Standing Commission on Liturgy and Music, in consultation with the House of Bishops, collect and develop liturgical and theological resources and report to the 77th General Convention;
and be it furtherResolved, That the Standing Commission on Liturgy and Music, in consultation with the House of Bishops, devise an open process for the conduct of its work inviting participation from provinces, dioceses, congregations, and individuals who are engaged in such theological work, and inviting theological reflection from throughout the Anglican Communion;
and be it further
Resolved that bishops, particularly those in dioceses within civil jurisdictions where same gender marriage civil unions or domestic partnerships are legal, may provide generous pastoral response to meet the needs of members of this church, and be it further
Resolved that this convention honor the theological diversity of this Church in regard to matters of human sexuality and be it furtherResolved that the members of this church be encouraged to engage in this effort.

The official one will be herehttp://gc2009.org/ViewLegislation/view_leg_detail.aspx?id=898&type=CurrentSoon.

Vote Passes the House of Bishops. The vote was taken by roll call.
104 yes
30 no
2 abstain

Episcopal Church ordination of Priests and Bishops .... The Vote is in

Resolution D025 draws mixed responses
By Jerald Hyche, July 15, 2009
[Episcopal News Service -- Anaheim, California]

One day after adopting Resolution D025 by a 2-1 margin, Episcopal Church bishops on July 14 offered various interpretations when asked about the measure's purpose, its impact and why they voted for or against it.
All those interviewed agreed that the declaration makes a dramatic statement about the Episcopal Church's stance on the ordination of gay and lesbian persons -- including their consecration as bishops -- that cannot be ignored.
"We've made ourselves pretty clear," said Keith Whitmore, assistant bishop of Atlanta, who voted for the resolution. "The consequences of doing that are rather obvious."
The Rev. Ian Douglas (Massachusetts), World Mission legislative committee member, had told a news briefing after the House of Bishops' action on July 13 that the committee had been assigned all 13 resolutions that addressed Resolution 2006-B033. The resolution, adopted by the 75th General Convention, called for restraint in consenting to the consecration of bishops whose "manner of life" -- widely understood to mean homosexuality -- would cause concern for other members of the Anglican Communion.
Six of the resolutions called for "direct repeal of B033," Douglas explained, and six called for "a re-statement or maybe even a strengthening of our non-discrimination canons with respect to ordination." However, Douglas said, "in the House of Deputies -- particularly in the House of Deputies legislative committee on world mission -- there was not a whole lot of energy for either of the first two choices."
Instead, D025, the 13th resolution, "in the mind of the committee was a description of where we are as a church right now … and this invitation for ongoing conversation in these difficult issues was very important."
Bishops offered different opinions about the status of B033 in light of this week's action.
"I see D025 as trying to be fair to the gay and lesbians in our congregations, especially for those dioceses not as conservative as my own," said Bishop Philip Duncan of the Central Gulf Coast, who voted no. "But I don't see it as doing away with B033 because we do want to stay within the framework of the Anglican Communion."
Bishop James Jelinek of Minnesota, however, said he supported D025 because the new resolution deftly moves the church beyond B033.
"B033 was the absolutely right thing to do at the time," he said. "Would we want to do it now? No. But do we want to speak to that? No, because that's the past. We're looking to go forward."
When asked if D025 repudiates B033, Bishop John Buchanan, provisional bishop of Quincy, said "absolutely not. B033 was aimed at meeting a Windsor request for a moratorium on ordination of certain folks. That moratorium has held for three years and it will only not hold if and when we ordain the next openly gay person as a bishop in our church."
Bishop John Bryson Chane of Washington, an outspoken opponent of B033, said he voted for the resolution as a way of stating what he described as inevitable: "What this resolution says is, we've lived with the idea of using restraint in the consecration of gay and lesbian people for three years, and that time is up.
"Now what we have is a full awareness across the church and the communion that, by our constitution and canons, a person who is in a same-sex, committed relationship can, through the normal channels of our ordination process, be considered for ordination and consecration."
Bishop Bruce Caldwell of Wyoming and other D025 supporters agreed that the measure presents an honest description of the Episcopal Church's fully inclusive ordination process in a way that will benefit the church's relationship with other members of the Anglican Communion.
"The resolution is largely descriptive of where we are today," Caldwell said. "I do think we moved ahead in transparency. Our language became more clear than it was in the past, and that's a very healthy thing for the communion.
"It was not a direct attack on B033, so we can't absolutely draw that connection. We can say this has moved us further to inclusion, though, and in my heart, I am grateful for the clarity that is in it."
According to Bishop Mark Lawrence of South Carolina, clarity is exactly what is lacking in the resolution's language and its meaning for the future of the Episcopal Church.
"We're staring into murky waters," Lawrence said, "and everyone reads the tea leaves the way they want. It's very much of an Anglican Communion-breaking issue, and it breaks faith with many of the faithful in the church."
Though they both voted against the resolution, Duncan and Texas Bishop Andrew Doyle agreed that the document clearly and diplomatically states the church's position on ordination being open to all.
"It was very clear in acknowledging the reality that it is happening and that's a very different thing," Doyle said. "I don't think it's a shift in our thinking because people are thinking the same thing they were thinking three, six years ago on that from their various opinions…I think the resolution is a healthy and honest description of where we are."
Doyle said he voted against the resolution out of concern for repercussions if the action was seen as a repeal of B033.
Duncan agreed: "There will be some people who choose to leave the church and some who will have a very, very hard time with it. But I don't see it, as I read it, as strident and difficult as some people suggest it might be, because there's a graciousness about it."
Jelinek, Burnett and Caldwell predicted that other members of the Anglican Communion will more easily receive the truth of the convention's action thanks to relationships created at Lambeth Conference in 2008.
"D025 is about naming who we are -- not saying something against the Anglican Communion, and that's very different from what's happened in the past," Jelinek said. "This wasn't about taking a stand in Anglicanism; this was about describing who we are as a body. Does that also say something deeper? Yes, but it doesn't rub somebody's face in it."
Assisting Bishop Steven Charleston of California said he supported D025 because it provides the basic element necessary to true relationship: "trust, clarity and honesty."
"Without that we open ourselves up to an endless cycle of suspicion, innuendo, confusion, argumentation," he said. "By being clear about where we are, we're inviting others to enter into relationship with us based on that kind of clarity and for those of us within the Episcopal Church to begin to learn to live collegially with each other within our own tradition."
In international reaction, the conservative Anglican Communion Institute (ACI) interpreted the resolution as a repudiation of B033.
In a July 13 statement, ACI said the Episcopal Church "is already out of communion with the majority of the world's Anglicans. It is our expectation that many dioceses will not follow the Episcopal Church out of the Anglican Communion and the mainstream of apostolic Christianity. Instead, they will take immediate action to assure the communion and the Archbishop of Canterbury of their continued commitment both to observe the communion's moratoria and to preserve and restore their structural bonds to the communion."
The U.K.-based Fulcrum, a group for evangelical Anglicans, said in a statement that D025 "represents a further determined walking apart by the American Church and must have significant consequences for the relationship of TEC to the Church of England and the Anglican Communion."
Integrity USA, which supports the full inclusion of LGBT people in the church, described the bishops' decision as "effectively end[ing] the 'B033 era' and return[ing] the church to relying on its canons and discernment processes for the election of bishops."
The Rev. Susan Russell, outgoing Integrity president, said, "there is no question that today's vote in the House of Bishops was an historic move forward and a great day for all who support the full inclusion of all the baptized in the Body of Christ."
The bishops, Russell said, spoke candidly and truthfully "to each other and to us and … to our Anglican Communion brothers and sisters and to the world."
"The truth is we are a church committed to mission -- we are a church committed to the full inclusion of all the baptized in that mission -- and we are a church committed to creating as broad a place to stand as possible for ALL who wish to be part of this great adventure of being disciples of Jesus."

Tuesday, July 14, 2009

Mid July update


















The 4th of July at the Jersey Shore was far too short. I think we needed at least two more days. There was good food, good wine, good people and conversation and the weather was excellent. Though, we did get distracted, here and there, with distasteful Michael Jackson Jokes, the "Two Girls One Cup" video, and the TED video of the pig orgasm/insemination ...... you had to be there ..........

Nicholas's birthday party went really well. It was at "Shake - A - Leg" in Coconut Grove by the bay (next door to Monty Trainers). We had use of 3 sailboats and the captains and assistants are all volunteers. Nick's mom ordered too much food (as usual for our family).... we had assorted finger sandwiches and pastries from Gilbert's Bakery, Shorty's BBQ ribs, chicken, coleslaw and baked beans, then ended it with a cream filled birthday cake.

Kendall's exhibition of Elizabeth Taylor posters continues at the Old Miami Beach City Hall until the end of the month. He is showing 100 out of his 400 poster collection. It documents Ms. Taylors full film career and the artistry of the posters ... including many from other countries. The opening night was well attended .... Miami Beach Mayor Matti Bower, Mr and Mrs Astor, Valentino from Twist, Mr. S, Photographer Dale Stine, Cinamteque owner Dana, and many others.

This week Mr and Mrs Astor celebrate and anniversary .... CONGRATS!!!!

Tommy Decker has a birthday on Saturday 7/18 and DJ Leo Pino has a birthday on 7/21 .....

My little sis and the girls are headed to Las Vegas for the weekend and Mom will be going to Puerto Rico for two weeks at the end of the month. Nicholas is in sailing summer camp right now, so all seems to be chugging along. I will be helping Mr. S. finish some projects before I get completely distracted with the youth events I am planning for the fall. I start work on those in two weeks .... that is not including the stuff I need to get started on for 2010 Winter Party Festival and the Task Force's Miami Recognition Dinner coming up in October.

Well....have a good week!

For those interested on what has been going on at the General Convention of the Episcopal Church, click on to the link and there are reports and updates on the website.....

Saturday, July 11, 2009

Nick's 11th Birthday Pary


AJ, Jose Rafael, Nicholas

Today heading to Coconut Grove with the 3 "boys" (cousins) .... Nicholas, AJ, and Jose Rafael. It is Nick's 11th birthday party and it will be at the sailing club. His mom and my sis are going "overboard" with food, decorations and gift bags .... appetizers and cake from Gilberts and food from Shorty's BBQ.
This is a tightly scheduled event. Arrive at 1, kids sail from 2-4, "Happy Birthday" and cake at 4, depart at 5, clean-up and out by 5:30. It is a nice,hot day, so it will be good out on the water.
Hope you have a good weekend. Will catch up during the week ....

Friday, July 10, 2009

Searching for a poster....


Have been up and down, in and out, hot and sticky, wet and dry, tired and hungry, fed and happy .... that's the Florida summer for you. Will post some pics of the 4th in New Jersey and of Kendall's exhibit of Elizabeth Taylor posters soon.
This post is a "Wanted" request. Kendall has a poster for every single film that Elizabeth Taylor has made an appearance in starting from around 1942 (even if it just a guest appearance or did not receive film credit). The only poster that is missing from his collection is from the 1960 "Smell-O-Vision" film "Scent of Mystery" (also known as "Holiday in Spain, UK version). The only visual he has of it is the album cover from the score/soundtrack.
If you or someone you know is able to locate a copy, please let me know. Kendall has searched, but to no avail. Thanks!!!

Thursday, June 11, 2009

June ..... already?

Quick update for those few who follow ....

... Twist yearly "renovations" going on

... planning Disney trip with Mr. S for his birthday (6/19)

... Mr Astor has a birthday coming up ....

... planning the 4th of July weekend up to Mantoloking, NJ with Mr. S and looking forward to it .... Who will get to cook? hmm? (Yes, he will make the bread pudding...)

... Planning Nicholas's 11th birthday sailing party in Coconut Grove...

... Gettting mom to go to Puerto Rico or Virginia with her best friend

Keeping out of the rain, but loving the thunder storms when watching TV & Movies with Mr S.

Keep hydrated and enjoy the start of Summer!!!!

Sunday, May 31, 2009

A night at the theater - "Chicago"

Ziff Ballet and Opera House Lobby
Courtyard/Side Enterance
Lobby ceiling
Theater's Nautilus Ceiling...supposed to help with the acoustics
The Stage
Tonight Mr S and I will be going to the closing night of Broadway Musical Chicago at the Adrienne Arsht Center. Sofia Vergara will play Mama Morton.

I got bought the tickets really early, so we have box seats for the performance. I really like when we have "date nights". We will have dinner, dress up, head to the theater, enjoy some champagne and sit for the show.

Mr S was horrified that I had never seen this show live, but I counter attack with that he has never seen The Sound of Music. Well ... at least we still have things to learn from and teach each other....

This is a lovely theater and the pics are of the Ziff Ballet Opera House where the performance will take place. I took them during the grand opening week. The odd shape of the buildings and the over run in building costs was partly due to the fact that the sound and acoustics of the performing arts center was designed first and then the buildings were constructed around that.


Thursday, May 28, 2009

Pridelines Fundraiser

Pridelines is an organization that assists Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Transgender and Questioning youth. Their work saves lives. They will be having a fundraiser this Friday at the Florida Room in the Delano Hotel and the suggested donation is only $10.00 (but you can give more!).

Their organizers worked with me in reaching a wide range of people for the Winter Party Family Picnic and we are already planning for 2010. Please support and help if you can. Thanks!!!

Friday, May 22, 2009

Memorial Day Weekend 2009




Season in Florida is at an end and the kids are starting to get out of school and romp around the town for the Summer.

In South Beach it is "Urban Weekend" a.k.a. "Hip Hop Weekend"...the police put up barriers and close off areas and streets. There is a "paddy wagon" ready to take people away and the dress (or is it the undress) code consists of really short skirts/shorts/dresses (sometimes without panties) and really high heels and lots of "bling" ... baggy pants, no shirt, tank tops, t-shirts, lugz, timbs, grill, chains ... loud music ... We get a large group of tourists with less revenue to the local businesses. Some businesses make less money this weekend and some choose to close.
Whatever your opinion, I welcome them to area and deal with it. I do have fun with some of the people when they are down and the women are usually the ones that have and spend the money with the occasional pro sports athlete or singer/rappers making a cameo....

My godson finished school this week and he received some awards. We are having a BBQ on Saturday to celebrate. Mr S has to work and we will get together in the afternoon. We are planning to see the new Terminator film on Sunday and Monday will be up in the air, but I want to see Tiffany's show at the Palace.

I am helping Mr S with work this month, and Wednesday I have a Miami Recognition Dinner Meeting....

I hope all of you have a fun and safe weekend. Please take some time to remember, pray and thank all our veterans and soldiers....

Peace.

Saturday, May 16, 2009

Just letting the weekend come and go....
















No meetings, no family obligations, just me and Mr. S letting the weekend come and go .... maybe meet friends out, do a movie, eat, sleep, catch up on the week's shows saved on DVR ... or maybe just a couch day .....